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Don’t Be Scared, Mom!

Nervous about everything from bathing to carrying your newborn?
We’ll help you feel at ease during those early days of parenthood.
True confession: When it came time to leave the hospital with my baby girl
and care for her on my own, I was convinced that I’d do everything wrong.
Even the most basic tasks (carrying Amelia around the house, changing her
diaper, driving her to the pediatrician) terrified me. It’s a classic rookie-mom
reaction. “New motherhood brings an enormous sense of responsibility” says
Diane Sanford, Ph.D., coauthor of Life Will Never Be the Same: The Real
Mom’s Postpartum Survival Guide.”You’re also exhausted, which makes
everything nerve-racking.”

Add in postpartum hormones surging through your body, and your mind can
start playing tricks on you. New moms have more oxytocin in their system,
which serves to heighten their response to hearing their baby cry or seeing
her in distress. But it also causes “the fight or flight response to kick in more
easily, triggering the release of stress hormones — which can make you feel
even more anxious” Dr. Sanford says.

What’s a newly minted mama to do? First, take a deep breath. Then heed this
advice on how to perform angst-provoking tasks like a pro.

1-Cleaning the Umbilical Stump

Mommy Fear: If I try to clean his umbilical stump, I’ll reopen the scab.
Relax! You don’t even have to touch it. “The new recommendations are to just
ignore it” says Tanya Altmann, M.D., author of Mommy Calls. Exposure to air
will help dry the scab out: Fold diapers down so they don’t cover it (or use
Pampers Swaddlers Sensitive or Huggies Little Snugglers diapers for
newborns, which have an umbilical cord cutout). Until the scab has fallen off,
avoid the tub; give him sponge baths instead. If the area gets wet, dry it
gently, but there’s no need to wash it or swab it with alcohol. The stump
should fall off within a week or two. “A bit of blood-tinged fluid is normal for a
couple of days after that” Dr. Altmann says. If discharge lasts longer, or the
area around the belly button seems red, or if your newborn has a fever, call
the doctor to make sure your sweetie doesn’t have an infection.

2-Carrying Baby

Mommy Fear: I’ll drop my baby.

How to help prevent a similar slip when you’re carrying your little one? “Move
slowly, and think carefully about every step you’re taking” says Carole Kramer
Arsenault, R.N., author of The Baby Nurse Bible. Pay attention to your
surroundings: Don’t walk around in socks on wood floors, and make sure
there are no throw rugs you might trip on or other objects in your way. If going
up and down your staircase while holding your newborn is too scary to
handle, “set up a changing and napping area on the first floor of your home so
you can go downstairs just once in the morning and then stay there until
bedtime” Dr. Altmann suggests. After a week or two, you’ll feel confident
enough to take the stairs.
In the unfortunate event that you do drop your newborn, try not to panic. “If
the fall was onto a soft surface and your infant is acting normal, watch her
carefully for any signs of injury, such as continuous crying, lethargy, poor
feeding, irritability, or moving her extremities asymmetrically” Dr. Altmann
says. “However, if your baby falls onto a hard surface, loses consciousness,
or is not acting normal, or if you have any concerns whatsoever, call 911 or
head to the hospital right away.”

3-Caring for a Circumcision

Mommy Fear: I’ll irritate my son’s circumcision if I try to care for it.
“I avoided wiping my baby’s penis because I was so afraid I would hurt him”
admits Brie Doyle, of Boulder, Colorado. Until it’s healed, the best way to care
for this area during a change is to skip the wipes and use a squirt bottle filled
with warm water to rinse away any stool or urine that gets on the penis,
Arsenault says. To make sure your little guy stays comfy, prevent his diaper
from sticking to his penis while the circumcision heals. “For the first few days,
coat the penis with an antibiotic ointment such as Bacitracin at every diaper
change, then put an extra dab inside the diaper” Arsenault recommends. And
don’t be freaked out if you see a yellowish scab on the tip. It’s normal and
should disappear within two weeks.

4-Driving With Baby

Mommy Fear: If something is wrong with my baby while I’m driving, I won’t
It took weeks before I could confidently hit the road with Amelia in tow. I
couldn’t see her in her rear-facing seat, so if she cried, I would call to mind
worst-case scenarios, fearing she’d gotten pinched by the straps or injured
herself. The anxiety sometimes mademe cry!
Driving with Baby doesn’t have to be a wild emotional ride, though. Dr.
Altmann recommends that you do a safety check before you go anywhere, to
set your mind at ease: Make sure that your sweetie is strapped in securely,
the car seat is clicked into its base, and there’s nothing that could fall on her if

you stop short. If you’re really rattled, bring your partner or a friend along so
he or she can ride in the backseat with the baby while you focus on the road.

5-How to Bathe a Newborn Baby

Clean only what you can see; avoid putting anything deep into your baby’s ear
canal or nose
Every baby is different, but some don’t like to be bathed too soon after
feeding. Many moms find it’s best to bathe baby before she eats
And remember, NEVER leave baby alone in the bath
A bath is a perfect way to create separation between “busy time” and “sleep
time”, while giving you the chance to bond with your baby. Even tough days
can feel a little easier when you end the night by wrapping your beautiful
clean baby, snug and cozy, in her blanket — just in time for a lullaby.
*The skin barrier is the upper layer of the skin that acts as a vital barrier to
outside irritants, bacteria and allergens, helping protect the body from
disease. Babies skin barrier is uniquely different from adults’ and is still
developing, so it needs special care.

6-Taking Temperatures

Mommy Fear: I’ll injure my baby when using a rectal thermometer.
Especially when your newborn is already fussy, it’s tempting to use the
thermometer under her armpit or try a temporal one (the kind that scans the
forehead). “My husband once caught me putting the thermometer between my
daughter’s tushy cheeks because I couldn’t bear to actually stick it in” admits
Wendy Cloutier, a mom of two in Boston. But as much as you might cringe at
the thought of inserting somethingthere, a rectal temperature is the most
accurate reading for a newborn. Once she’s 3 months old, you can start using
an electronic ear thermometer or a digital thermometer to take an underarm
reading, although these methods give a less precise result.
“I’ve never seen a baby get injured from a thermometer” Dr. Altmann says. To
use one safely, lay your baby on her back on the changing table or the floor,
then grab her feet and lift her up, the same way you would to wipe her bottom
during a diaper change. Take the thermometer, dip it in petroleum jelly, then
insert it about half an inch into her rectum so the tip is completely inside her
bottom. “It won’t hurt your infant unless she starts wiggling around, so be sure
to hold her firmly” Arsenault says. Like many anxiety-provoking baby tasks,
this one is easiest with two adults, one to hold the baby still, the other to do
the honors. A word to the wise: This stimulation may produce a bowel
movement, so have a diaper ready when you pull the thermometer out.

7-Clipping Baby’s Nails

Mommy Fear:I’ll nick a finger when I try to trim those tiny nails.
Hold off on clipping your babe’s nails until he’s a few weeks old, because they
remain attached to the skin for a while after he’s born, Dr. Altmann says. Still,
you don’t want your baby to scratch himself, so once his nails start growing
away from the skin, clip them. (Resist the temptation to nibble them off — the
bacteria in your mouth could lead to infection.)
Dr. Altmann suggests double-teaming at first: “You or your partner can hold
the baby still while the other clips” she says. Occupy your little squirmer’s free
hand with a toy, so h’s not inclined to grab at you, then grasp his other palm
with one hand, taking hold of one finger at a time and delicately pulling the
finger pad away from the nail. Use a clean pair of infant nail clippers or
scissors to gently cut the nail along the curve of the finger in one or two snips.
Be sure to leave a little white behind; cutting down to the quick can be painful
for your baby. If you accidentally nick your baby’s tiny finger, relax — it will heal
in no time. “Place firm pressure on the bleeding area until it stops” says Dr.
Altmann. Finish the job by filing away any sharp edges with an infant nail file.
Of course, if you’re truly terrified of using clippers on your cutie, you can
simply file his nails to the right length — the manicure just may take a little

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